From Zero to Homeowner Part 2: Understanding Negotiations or How Not To Negotiate Against Yourself

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Imagine you are a homeowner selling your house. You accepted the offer five days ago, and you have felt more anxious than ever since then. You thought this would be easy, but the buyers’ agent is coming in hard, renegotiating better terms for his clients. Endless contingencies, deadlines, inspections, and concessions, nothing of which your realtor prepared you for. You feel lost.

Your realtor seemed confident, and you liked his aggressive, go-getter attitude. She is one of those people who are comfortable saying “NO” all the time, but you think her stern negotiating style is backfiring. Since her first “NO,” you made more concessions than ever thought you would, and you are not really clear on how the buyer’s agent is getting all they want, but it has to do something with your agent saying no to them.

You are looking at your shrinking net sheet. You want to get this deal done, but you are afraid that if you don’t throw in the towel, you will lose more money.

You look at your wife; she gives you a worried stare. You pick up your phone. You are closing this deal today—no more pain.

TYPES OF NEGOTIATORS

When working with realtors, it is important to understand that there are many different types of negotiators. Here’s a fundamental and clinical list of the types of negotiators you can encounter.

1. The Assertive Negotiator: This negotiator is confident and assertive, often taking a firm stance and pushing for their desired outcome. They are skilled at making arguments and may use persuasive tactics to win concessions from the other party.
2. The Collaborative Negotiator: Collaborative negotiators prioritize building relationships and finding mutually beneficial solutions. They focus on open communication, listening to the other party’s concerns, and working together to reach agreements that satisfy both sides.
3. The Analytical Negotiator: Analytical negotiators approach negotiation by focusing on data and facts. They may meticulously research market trends, property values, and comparable sales to support their arguments and justify their positions.
4. The Emotional Negotiator: Emotional negotiators are driven by their feelings and maybe more reactive during negotiations. They may become easily frustrated or agitated, and their emotions can sometimes cloud their judgment or lead to impulsive decision-making.
5. The Strategic Negotiator: Strategic negotiators are adept at planning and executing their negotiation tactics. They carefully analyze the situation, anticipate the other party’s moves, and develop strategies to achieve their objectives.
6. The Compromising Negotiator: Compromising negotiators are willing to make concessions and find a middle ground to reach a deal. They prioritize reaching an agreement quickly and may be more flexible in their demands to facilitate a smooth transaction.
7. The Avoidant Negotiator: Avoidant negotiators may shy away from confrontation or difficult conversations. They may be uncomfortable with conflict and prefer to avoid negotiation altogether or delegate the task to someone else.

Every negotiator has unique strengths and weaknesses; comprehendinghending their style can help you navigate negotiations more effectively. However, the most successful negotiators are those who can embody all types and are flexible in switching gears dtalksations.

UNDERSTANDING MOTIVATION AND PRIORITIES OF THE PARTIES

I can not stress this enough! Thorough preparation is essential for successful negotiation. Successful negotiators invest time and effort in researching the relevant facts, understanding the other party’s interests and motivations, and developing a clear strategy to achieve objectives.

By actively listening and demonstrating understanding, negotiators build rapport and trust, creating a collaborative atmosphere where both parties feel heard and valued. This approach can lead to more successful outcomes in real estate negotiations as parties work together to find creative solutions that satisfy everyone’s needs and interests. Ultimately, by prioritizing empathy and understanding, negotiators can achieve better results and foster stronger relationships in the negotiation process.

CREATIVITY AS A FACTOR

Real estate negotiations frequently encounter obstacles and challenges that require creative problem-solving. Creative negotiators can find innovative solutions to overcome these obstacles and keep the deal moving forward, whether addressing financing issues, navigating zoning regulations, or resolving disagreements over property conditions.

Creativity is a valuable asset in negotiations, enabling realtors to find innovative solutions, build positive relationships, and differentiate themselves in a competitive market. By harnessing their creativity, realtors can achieve better results for their clients and enhance their reputation as skilled and effective negotiators.

COMMON PITFALLS

In conclusion, if I had to give one piece of advice in a sentence or two, I would say: While price is undoubtedly an essential factor in real estate negotiations, it’s not the only consideration. Pay attention to other critical terms of the deal, such as financing contingencies, inspection periods, and closing timelines. Don’t make unrealistic demands or ultimatums that could derail the negotiation process and harm your client’s position.

And remember, “NO” is just the beginning of negotiations.

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